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Tattoos for Mothers — and About Them

For the stories we carry—and the women who carry us. The ones who stay strong when no one’s watching, and choose, quietly, to mark the parts that mattered most.
May 10, 2025 by
Tattoos for Mothers — and About Them
Hya Laoke

The Center of Everything

In many Filipino families, a mother is the center of everything. She’s the one who stays up late when a child has lagnat, wakes up before everyone else to prepare baon, and remembers even the things no one asked her to—like where the scissors are, or when the next bill is due., keeps paracetamol in her bag “just in case.” She notices coughs before they start, knows when someone’s not okay, and finds ways to solve problems quietly, without making a big deal out of it.

She’s not always thanked. She doesn’t ask to be.

That’s why it means something else entirely when a mother walks into a tattoo studio and says, “Gusto ko lang ng maliit. Para sa sarili ko.”

A Tattoo for Herself

The tattoos mothers choose are rarely loud. Often, the request is simple.

A child’s name. A birthdate. A flower. Sometimes it’s a word that helped her through a hard season, or something only she understands.

Not for display. Not for anyone else. Just something to keep close. A small reminder that she is still a person—someone with her own thoughts, memories, and moments that often get buried under everyone else’s needs.

When the needle stops and she looks at the piece, there’s usually a quiet pause. No big reaction, no speech. But something in her posture shifts—as if, in that small moment, she’s claimed a little space for herself again.


A Tattoo About Her

Other times, the tattoo isn’t for her—but about her.

A client walks in holding a card written in their mom’s handwriting. A photo of her favorite sampaguita. A line she always used to say. Her signature. Her birthday. The day she left.

There’s often no big explanation. Just a quiet decision to carry her in a different way.

One client came in a few weeks after his mom passed. He didn’t speak much. Just showed us a paper with her signature and said, 

“Ito lang. Gusto ko dalhin lagi.”


How We Show Love

In our culture, love isn’t always spoken. We show love in different ways—through care, presence, and effort. We don’t always say “I love you.” But we prepare food quietly, check in when someone’s too quiet, and notice the little things others miss.

That’s why tattoos like these mean something. They carry what’s left unsaid. They don’t need to shout to matter.

They become proof: 
“I remember. I care. I’m still holding this.”

More Than a Mark

Whether you're a mother choosing something for yourself for the first time, or someone honoring your own nanay—these pieces aren't just ink.

They’re part of the story. They don’t try to explain everything. But they hold enough. And sometimes, that’s more than enough.

To all mothers—in every form—thank you. To those raising children, to those remembering one, to those who’ve stepped into the role by choice or by chance, and to those simply doing their best every day: we honor you.


Booking a Tattoo That Holds Meaning

If you're thinking about honoring your journey as a mother—or celebrating the one who raised you—we’d be honored to help. You’re welcome to bring a name, a date, a memory, or even just a feeling. Each piece is custom, quiet, and created with care. 

📍 Don Antonio Tattoo – Quezon City 
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Tattoos for Mothers — and About Them
Hya Laoke May 10, 2025
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